In the course of the last few years I have thought a fair amount about what it means to be “right” about something. I think it goes something like this: what a person feels is right is a compromise between what they have been told is right and the feelings they have gained through experiences. (Caution: controversial half-baked ideas ahead)
Let me give some examples. Men who live in a society where women are treated inferior to men will most likely think that this is right. That’s because this belief benefits them, and almost everyone else around them accepts this belief. Some women who live in these societies may also feel that it is right, but I think that this feeling will be forever in conflict with what they have learned from their experiences: that it is a foolish and arbitrary notion. They may “believe” it is right, but I imagine they must have to really pound that idea into their heads for them to accept it.
A lot of people feel it is right to invade Iraq and transform their government. I can understand some reasons why they might feel this way. I think Saddam Hussein was awful and evil and mean (according to my values) but I think that it is not okay to invade them just because their values don’t line up with ours. If they were actually posing a threat to us, then I think an invasion might have been appropriate as long as that threat was explicit and real. Without that threat, we are basically on a crusade to rid the world of what we feel is wrong, and I don’t think that is fair.
I think this is one of the many reasons that religion is so popular: God (or the respective infallible entity of your religion of choice) defines what is right and what is wrong. It saves you the trouble of trying to figure it out for yourself! Although there is always some infighting, values are usually very similar within a religion. Yes, things are generally easier when everyone thinks the same way, but if a religion explicitly teaches intolerance of non-believers or “deviants” then the followers will not only have a very difficult time existing in a society of mixed-belief, but they might feel ordained to convert or even, in the most extreme and rare case, punish the non-believers. I think religion does many wonderful things for people, but some people are prone to interpret it in the way that suits them, and that’s not always with proper concern or respect for their fellow humans.
I guess my overall message here is that I think religions in this day and age need to teach tolerance explicitly. There’s no easy answer to all of the problems the world is facing, but people need to get real when it comes to respecting the beliefs of others. Crusades are selfish, not altruistic. The world is too large for one belief-system alone!